What is it with women these days? It seems there is an exponential increase in women who want to “peg” their man. Is it an issue of pleasure? Is it an act of domination? Just why are women clamoring to get their butt stroke going? In the past couple of years I’ve had several women ask me to be their “bend over boyfriend” (I have yet to decide if this is a compliment or not). I’ve politely declined every overture, but I have been left wondering, “What the F— is going on?”
This isn’t a subject I’ve really discussed with any of my male friends. But from
what I gather it seems that there are more and more men getting pegged by their girlfriends (and liking it), just as there are even more men who are adamant that their asses are ‘no fly zones’. Members of the no fly zone camp tend to fall into two categories:
- Those who don’t think it will be pleasurable or who are simply not interested in anal play.
- Those who feel it will emasculate them and/or don’t enjoy being dominated.
Personally, I’m not worried about being emasculated in the bedroom. I’m a man, always have been and always will be—I’m just not sure I see where the pleasure will come into it for me (please spare me the conversation about my prostate being stimulated).
This whole debate about pegging reminded me of something my brother’s friend Edward once said many, many moons ago. According to good old Ed, just as women lose their virginity when a phallus penetrates them, we men are virgins until we too are penetrated by a high hard one. I’m not sure if Ed was full of shit or ahead of his time, but with my virginity intact I ask you good people:
What turns you on or off about pegging? Is it a matter of turnabout being fair play? For those without a penis, does the idea of having one turn you on? Does a man being pegged make him less of a man in your eyes? Fellas, are you too proud to be pegged?
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Comment by Elizabeth Rose — January 6, 2010 @ 11:24 am
I’d love to peg a guy… (watch out Finn)
For me it’s curiosity and because I think it’ll be funny.
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Comment by Jenny — January 6, 2010 @ 11:26 pm
me too – the whole domination thing turns me on!!!
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Comment by Sam Sharpe — January 7, 2010 @ 12:17 pm
Ladies,
If you like the idea of pegging a man, you might want to check out the movie “Young People Fucking”. There’s a scene in that movie that’s made for you.
Cheers.
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Comment by Waiting to Wed — January 8, 2010 @ 11:10 am
I personally think it’s all about domination. I’ve been pegged, it surely wasn’t a turn on.
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Comment by dean — January 30, 2010 @ 5:18 pm
i want to be pegger bye a women if there are any offers my email is deanosawus@hotmail.co.uk
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Comment by Sam Sharpe — January 30, 2010 @ 5:56 pm
@ dean
You’re joking right? You’re not really soliciting a pegger from our site are you?
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Comment by dean — January 31, 2010 @ 6:27 pm
solicitation is ilegal and im not offering money however being open to explore one’s sexual life is fine
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Comment by Sam Sharpe — February 1, 2010 @ 12:45 pm
@ dean
Ooooo-kay. But wouldn’t something like one of the following be more effective:
http://www.flirtbox.co.uk/
http://www.kinkydating.co.uk/
Now that we’ve cleared that up…carry on!
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Comment by Don Belmont — February 2, 2010 @ 2:41 pm
Because it feels great. Like anyone if you can relax to the penetration and get your head around the delicious visions then you will have some incredible orgasms. Is there some other reason for any sexual act.
The problem with answering why is that like many sexual things there are different aspects that come into play. At times it’s very pleasurable to be on the receiving end. No performance pressure at all. Your woman is in charge and all you have to do is be receptive. If you’ve selected the right equipment then her actions control her pleasure and yours.
Then there’s the purely physical. I know you said don’t talk prostate but it is a factor. As well as the sensations of being entered and filled. Which also set up some great feelings. If you want to try just a little bit then get a small butt plug and use it while you masturbate. When you cum with the plug inside you the usual sensations of orgasm will be multiplied. And then you can answer your own question.
Speaking intellectually I can’t imagine why a woman wouldn’t be at least curious about being the penetrator for a change. I suppose there’s some level of dominance involved that she may have not experienced but as a secure man I have no problem letting my woman drive things.
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Comment by cna training — April 15, 2010 @ 6:23 am
Wow this is a great resource.. I’m enjoying it.. good article
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Comment by shcak — July 3, 2010 @ 9:47 am
My wife pegs me all the time and its the greats feeling I ever had. If guys only knew what they are missing everyone would do it.
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