Sex + Experimenting = FUN!

SKYE BLUE

So you and your new lover have made it past the awkward getting to know you phase, your first kiss, your first time in bed, and you’ve even made it through your first trip. It’s been a few months, you’re really starting to feel comfortable with each other, and you sense that it’s time to take your budding relationship to the next level. You’re itchin’ to let your inner freak hang out. But how will you know for sure that your bed mate is ready for you to show him/her all of what you’re working with? Unfortunately, you won’t know until you ask or try, so you’re going to have to stick your neck out and take a risk.

My second serious boyfriend D.S. was one such risk taker, who opened my mind to the wonderful possibilities of sex with a partner who was willing to try anything. Although I wasn’t quite up to his speed when we met his openness about trying new things, combined with his take charge attitude d helped me get up close and personal with my carnal side. Just a few short months after we met D.S. had me partaking in outdoor sex (he was quite the exhibitionist), role playing and even a little butt play…

You see D.S. was a sneaky bugger who realized that he would have to manoeuvre around his less experienced partner’s hang ups. Well, one night after having scrubbed each other down in the shower, D.S. and I crawled into bed together. We were both feeling a little randy so he started ‘warming me up’ for some bedroom gymnastics. When it was clear that I was ready to go D.S. asked me if he could hit it doggy style – his favourite way to play. Ever accommodating I assumed the ass up face down position. A few seconds later instead of feeling his hard on as he made his approach, I felt the moistness of his tongue around the edges of my…

Anus!

For a split second I thought about pulling away – my younger and not so experienced self couldn’t help but think what he was doing was real nasty. But all thoughts of making a run for it flew right out the window when the waves of pleasure hit me. Damn! Who knew something so nasty could feel so good. I ended up thanking D.S. many times and in many different ways that night for showing me how delightful a good salad tossing (i.e. being rimmed) can be.

Needless to say after being with D.S. I’m much more open about experimenting behind closed doors. As a result I’ve had more than my fair share of fun in the bedroom. Having said that, I do acknowledge the fact that it may be a little difficult to find the courage to ask your lover to treat you to your heart’s darkest desires, or to pull a D.S. and just drop some new shit on them – especially if your he/she isn’t open minded. But if you don’t take the risk, you’ll never know how much FUN – i.e. spine tingling, repertoire building, mutually satisfying and scorchin’ hot action – you could’ve had.

And wouldn’t that be a pity?

Happy experimenting all.

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