Partaking in pain as pleasure is a personal choice. I like a spanking to frame my orgasm with a short, sharp slap. Others may like something a little more intense and indulge in nipple clamps, beatings, gimp suits and the like. These folks may need a safe word Read More
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Sunday, July 25th, 2010Why I’ll Never Be a (Real) Cougar…
Friday, June 25th, 2010I have a confession. A few weeks ago due to some intense lust/like I was feeling I broke my number one dating rule – no dating younger men. Silly as it may seem to some of you this rule has served me well for much of my dating life. In any case, against my better judgement I decided to date this 30 year old guy, who I’m going to call The Kid (you’ll see why in a minute), who I’d been crushing on for over a year. Read More
Guest Post: Women Are Emotional
Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010Even With Two Heads, l Don’t Understand Women
Sunday, June 20th, 2010I get mad when you walk away (don’t walk away)
So I tell you leave, when I mean stay
–‘Sweetest Thing’ by Lauryn Hill
My childhood friend Mikey always said that women were just flat out irrational and illogical. Too dependent on their emotions he’d say. Can’t trust ‘em. They should never be CEO’s or run countries. Running a household was as much responsibility as they should have. That was Mikey’s stance and he wasn’t budging. To be fair, Mikey had women do and say the craziest shit in order to get with or stay with him. Or to push his buttons.
Love and Marriage
Tuesday, June 15th, 2010“I never married because there was no need. I have three pets at home which answer the same purpose as a husband. I have a dog that growls every morning, a parrot that swears all afternoon, and a cat that comes home late at night.” – Marie Corelli
This week we are debunking the myth that all women want marriage and babies. I don’t agree with statements that make such sweeping generalisations, but here’s a confession Read More
Guest Post: Woman and the Truth 101 (a Cheat Sheet For Men)
Thursday, June 10th, 2010Ah women and the truth…it’s a relationship more fraught than the Capulets and the Montagues, the Jets and the Sharks, the Crips and the Bloods. Not that we gals will admit it of course. See we like to delude ourselves by proclaiming that honesty is one of the most important characteristics a man can have while leaving out the huge caveat: Read More
Denial Isn’t Just a River in Egypt
Tuesday, June 8th, 2010As ER pointed out in Not the Whole Truth and I implied in Top 10 Tall Tales Told in the Bedroom, there are times when it’s best not to ask for or tell the truth to your SO/bed mate. However, it is ALWAYS important to face the realities of your relationship – even the ones you are loathe to deal with. Read More
The Truth and Nothing But The Truth
Monday, June 7th, 2010I should come with a warning label, a proviso for any woman interested in dating/f***ing/m****ing me. The tag attached to my shirt should read:
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WARNING. THIS MAN WILL TELL YOU GOD’S HONEST (0r at least his) TRUTH AT ALL TIMES. PROCEED WITH CAUTION.
Not the Whole Truth
Sunday, June 6th, 2010“The terrible thing about the quest for truth is that you find it.” – Rémy De Gourmont
Communication is the key to many things; good sex, friendship and successful relationships. That is a common theme here on metanotherfrog, both from your hosts and our many guest writers. However, this week’s theme will likely highlight the fact that there can be too much of a good thing, including truth and communication in your relationship. Read More
Don’t Make Me Un-F*** You!
Thursday, May 27th, 2010Just who do I think I am? I’ve spent the better part of this month giving people unsolicited advice on how to improve their sex lives. The nerve of me, thinking that because I have a good time and I try to make sure my partners have a good time, I’m qualified for the job. And why should anybody listen to me? Is it because I know that not taking myself too seriously can translate into serious fun in the bedroom? Is it because I’m playful and imaginative and enthusiastic? Who knows? Anyway, I thought I’d cap this month by shifting gears a little. I thought I’d give you my list of five things that are guaranteed to turn me off (and probably your man too) and lead to us not fucking. Ever.