“An adventure is only an inconvenience rightly considered. An inconvenience is only an adventure wrongly considered.” – G. K. Chesterton
Our journey through the outskirts of the sexual fringe is almost over. So I wanted to talk about the wonderful world of fringe in action… Read More
“Man is a make-believe animal – he is never so truly himself as when he is acting a part.” – William Hazlitt
I must say readers, I am thoroughly enjoying fringe month! I do have some serious grovelling to do for Skye to forgive my group questions, and Sam is now afraid to turn his back to me in case I try to peg him – but it has been rather a giggle so far and we are only half way through! Read More
“Marry an outdoors woman. Then if you throw her out into the yard on a cold night, she can still survive.” – W.C. Fields
I’m an outdoorsy girl. I like to march along muddy trails on foot or horseback. I used to love tearing through forests, stopping to find a glade for picnics. A lot of this happened in my innocence, when secluded nooks in the great wide were just good hiding places. Now they have a new more Read More
“There are toys for all ages” – French Proverb
I still have my anal virginity (*ahem*) so I can’t offer much in the way of personal experience of bum based toy fun; but I have done my research. On my London shopping trip I wandered into Sh!, a delightful women’s sex shop in Hoxton Square. (Recommended to any London based ladies for helpful staff and good product range.) My friend Chelsea and I were advised by Joanna on the day, who ran us through their “anal range” and offered us some backdoors advice. Read More
“…the butthole can be the great equalizer— everyone has one. It is the most democratic of our orifices. We can all experience what it feels like to be pitcher or catcher on the butthole diamond. And no one can accuse you of anus envy.” – Tristan Taormino, of puckerup.com
I have alluded to the request for anal sex coming up about three weeks after any declaration of love or commitment. It also happens in the casual realm where I choose to explore. Some lasses enjoy it up the bum, some don’t. But it seems that at some point all men wish to explore their lady’s back passage. Read More
The thought of anything going in my ass creeps me out for two reasons. One, because based on very necessary rectal check ups done by my doctor, I think it would feel awful: and two, as a het guy I have trouble wrapping my head around the idea of being that submissive – even with a woman I loved.
– J.L., an anti-pegging advocate
It turns out that the straight-male fear of reciprocal anal play is a potent mix of sexism and homophobia; a straight man can do it to someone else, but having it done to him isn’t okay.
– Em & Lo (Emma Taylor and Lorelei Sharkey), The Bottom Line Read More
Although it pains me to admit this I have to. As I read Casual Sex, Women and Me I could relate – to the girls. But I’m sure I’m not alone. As far as I can tell, most women aren’t as proficient in the art of casual mating as they’d like to believe. From what I have seen, heard and lived, we women tend to get a wee bit delusional about our ability to stay emotionally detached as we play the game. Read More
“No one ever choked to death swallowing their pride” – Grandma Rose
My Grandmother was a wise woman, full of advice that I ignore to this day. Realising that my behaviour with Finn could be considered a result of “feelings” I decided the best way to address the imbalance was to jump into bed with a new flavour. Read More
“As she has planted, so does she harvest; such is the field of karma.” – Sri Guru Granth Sahib
Readers, I am concerned. I am perplexed, worried and even somewhat fraught. I was being self reflective this weekend past - (okay I was hung over and watching reruns of CSI – the Vegas one, not Miami) and I realised that my recent run of luck with male specimens has been less than favourable. Read More
Now where were we? (to read part 1 click here) Ahh yes, B and I were about to commune and the unthinkable happened. Like I said before this is going to be good…
B made his ‘grand entrance’ and within 60 seconds of doing so he – Read More