I think finding your kink. Is kind of like finding your G-Spot (for women, I’m still working on the analogy for men). Some women seem to know it from birth, inherent in its qualities. Some ladies doubt its existence, disheartened by time spent searching with no results. And then there’s chicks like me.
We. Are the Christopher Columbuses of Kink. Read More
When Skye recently came to me and asked if I’d be interested in writing on breath play my immediate response was yes. And not just a regular yes. But a yes with enthusiasm and gusto. A ‘Hell Yes!’ if you will. And I know what you’re thinking. Is SSD an erotic asphyxiation aficionado? Well, not quite kids.
My enthusiasm stems less from a knowledgeable, expertise, (what’s the opposite of vanilla) standpoint than it does from a recent awesome experience. A recent awesome experience that taught me about how and why I like those man hands around my neck. But I should tell you now. I’m only barely out of vanilla territory. Actually I’m still possibly in vanilla territory but maybe with some sprinkles or something. Read More
“Working at Sh! involves looking after a huge variety of customers – some who are regulars and know exactly what makes them tick, others who have never used a sex toy and are somewhat shy or reserved at first.” – A Sh! Girl
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Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium was the very first shop of its kind to open in London. Sh!, a sex shop run by women, for women was founded in 1992. The mission was simple: Read More
JFB posed an interesting question to me, both in the comment section of my last post here and in private:
“…I would like to see some specifics as to why this is enjoyable for women… Will this be covered in the next part of the series?”
It took me a couple of days to sort through what direction I wanted to go in with this essay… Do I poll groups of women to find out why they like butt secks? Do I dig out the books and pile this article full of statistics and research? Do I talk about my personal preferences? Read More
“Smell is the sense of memory and desire.” Jean-Jacques Rousseau
We here at metanotherfrog.com are returning to the fringe of sexual preference and desire for the duration of July, aka Fringe Month Two. We’ll be picking up where we left off back in January in our explorations of the filthy, oft unnerving and ever kinky. And I have the pleasure of kicking things off today with an almost universal fetish; that of smells or scents.
I want to clear something up. Be a little more precise. About Man-Eaters. About who I am. About chicks just like me. Because there’s this notion. That Man-Eaters. Are Man Haters. (A notion proliferated by young buckettes who don’t yet know themselves.) And it’s really just the opposite. Grown Up Man-Eaters. Are Man Lovers. We love ‘em. Can hardly contain ourselves. Gotta have ‘em. Read More
Gents I have a secret to share with you. Although it appears that Mike Masters has already shared the secret, I’m going to confirm it from a female perspective. Read More
Hi. I’m Mike from the relationship website MiketheMasterDater.com. Recently Skye asked me to write about female double standards in relationships. As I understand it, this particular topic was not one that other guy bloggers were very excited to take off her hands. Why? Because you women are scary!! See proof Read More
*Disclaimer. There are clingy chicks in the world. There are clingy boys in the world. This is about the rest of us. Who get a bad rep.
I’m a planner. Some people think that’s a flaw. I think it’s brilliant. And FYI: Planning and spontaneity are not mutually exclusive. My passport is always up to date. At a moment’s notice I’m ready for a summer road trip. Camping? Sure! ouse-party in Kelowna tonight? Fuck yeah…I’ll get gas, you get snacks and we can be there in five hours! I’m basically up for anything at anytime. Party at the moon tower and I’m rounding up money, kegs (for you guys of course, I’ll drink diet coke) and Mathew McConaughey. But essentially I’m looking for fun fun fun all the time time time. Read More
The idea that women are too emotional is not an uncommon one. I’m sure that all of you have heard it and that you know how the story goes. Essentially anything that happens to a woman makes her cry simply because she is female (aka a super emotional being that tears up at the drop of a hat).